Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Consuming Contented Consumerism by Judy Biltcliffe

I was just going to write in the comment column regarding Steve's post "Countdown to Oblivion" but decided to try my hand at the real deal. Anything I might have to say on the afforementioned subject would be too long and too revealing that I may need to get a life. This way I can actually look like I'm doing something constructive and meaningful that will bring about some sort of solution regarding said post. Just to let you know in advance, I don't have one. A solution, that is. So you may want to turn back now.
After ten minutes of sitting in front of that sentence I am reminded of why I stopped writing in the first place, too much work. Effort and excertion, that which ultimately drove us to New Times Roman. Always looking for the better, easier way. And what's wrong with that? It's better and it's easier. What kind of idiot doesn't want better and easier? Me, that's who. I mean ,I just got my first cell phone. In the end it was getting too difficult to find a pay phone and the last communication I made on one was in a downpour, thus finally driving me into the waiting arms of modern design. And this whole cyber thing, don't get me going on that. It was just time to come down off the telephone pole. And you really can't get a hold of anybody anymore anyway unless they check their E-mail.
Yes Steve, there is a Santa Clause, and he's got way too much stuff in his bag. It's piled high and arranged in a most attractive and enticing way. And those horns he's sporting under that fuzzy hat have a way of making most of us believe that we actually need what's being offered. Somewhere along the way the lines got blurred as to what we want and what we actually need. And if you live with what you want long enough you may start believing you need it. But the things mentioned in Countdown, the siding, the car repairs, those are, unfortunately, due to the way things are, necessities. Ya gotta take care of your stuff. The Bible says so. It's in proverbs somewhere. Great, now I have to make an effort and excert myself to find it in my concordance and I know the word stuff isn't in there....You'll never believe this, the word stuff actually resides in this concordance. Belongings, possessions, goods, supplies, things. It says "see baggage". (I think it should say chains). Here it is folks. Proverbs 12:27 says the diligent man prizes his possessions. Why? I think it's because God has given us these things to somehow advance the Kingdom.
I have no more to offer on that, I'm not God. But I will offer this. Consumerism and consumerist societies are better than the alternative which basically comes down to a choice of communism, fascism, Sharia law or Africa. Slavenka Drakulic writes in How We Survived Communist Rule and Even Laughed, "without a choice of cosmetics and clothes, with bad food and hard work and no spare time, it wasn't hard to create the special kind of uniformity that comes out of equal distribution of poverty and the neglect of people's real needs. There was no chance for individualism".
Very few people who manage to escape these kinds of countries ever opt to go back. At least not if they want to eat. But they see the absurdity of the disparity of it all. Drakula writes, "but even to look at the richness of a consumer society becomes difficult, there's the feeling that it's just absurd to look at so many things and so many kinds of one thing. It has to stop somewhere, this plentitude doesn't make any sense. Coming from a world of shortages, one's idea of plenty is mainly fruit, meat, vegatables, shampoo, soap, toilet paper. First you discover an immense greed, a wish to buy everything-then you discover powerlessness-and the very essence of it, poverty."
The apostle Paul wrote, (can I piggyback or can I piggyback?) "I have learned to be content in any and every situation". And it's not that I am. I mean, who would think you have to learn to be content with no lack of material wealth? I wrestle with the discontent that comes from fighting those chains that keep me from serving Jesus in the way I think I would serve Him if they didn't keep dragging me back. I've learned the hard way that contentedness is begotten of gratefulness. Not that I'm always grateful, either. You know how it is, you don't appreciate what you've got until you don't have it anymore. So I'll just have to live with my stuff, chains and all. Not the worst option in the world, especially when I consider that some of the links in the chain are of my own making. And that basically means that I have some power of of my own to break free. Not to mention the power He gives.
I'll finish with lyrics to a song Sarah Kelly sings:

Contentment is the art
Yes contentment is the answer
So be still my heart
As you learn to love

14 comments:

ellehasuly said...

Thanks for sharing this very thoughtful post, Judy. I will have to mentally chew on it for a while and then get back to you with a real response...I have not had my coffee yet...

...have a cup o'joy...
Lynne

batgirl said...

Judy: deeper than we thought. :)

We think our things are such an advantage, and pity those with nothing, but there are contented people living in the dump in Nicaragua, sorting through garbage to find metal scraps to sell, just so they can get their daily bread. And me, discontented as I lean on my granite countertop and lament that we're out of Hershey syrup. There are Christians meeting in secret in China-- heart-broken because so many of their brothers and sisters are in prison or work camps or have been killed. Heart-broken but content. Yeah, I want that: contentedness.

Unknown said...

The quote "Coming from a world of shortages, one's idea of plenty is mainly fruit, meat, vegatables, shampoo, soap, toilet paper. First you discover an immense greed, a wish to buy everything-then you discover powerlessness-and the very essence of it, poverty." is very powerful. I, unfortunately, relate more to the thoughts of greed(or fight them when we have plenty). His Strength is made perfect in our weaknesses for His grace is sufficient. He promises to supply for all of our needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus...and I have had first hand experience with asking Him to make true on this promise and He did right away. It is easy to understand that the root of all kinds of evil is the love of money. Good post Judy, thanks.

Robert said...

Wow. I think that we are all at the same place same time. I just posted a note this morning with the same sort of slant on society and living simple.

Helios Power and Control said...

wow. this puddle hides a deep well. i've never known contentment; not while sober, anyway. i was brought up poor, and now i'm rich (priceless wife, two lovely kids, more than one guitar). i could be the rich dude who was instructed to sell it all, but i haven't gotten the memo. my "rosary" prayers center around gratitude, but the poor haunt my inner movies. did nicodemus lie awake nights? did Lydia agonize over her gross income? wish i knew. actually i wish judy knew, she would explain it better. well done, crystal decanter....

batgirl said...

Okay, somebody has to say it. Because I suspect it's what most of us are thinking: was Paul full of it? Is the contentment he claimed to had attained actually possible? He wasn't an artist. Is it possible for an artist. I could relate to Paul when he said, "Oh wretched man (woman) that I am. Who will deliver me from this body of death." I could relate to THAT. But this contentment thing...
Phil, I'm not alone, am I?

Helios Power and Control said...

alone? i guess not, janet.
57 years with my nose pressed against the glass. was that you i saw window shopping at the contentment store?

batgirl said...

I guess I wasn't fooling anyone by wearing those glasses with the funny nose and mustache. Yeah... that was me.

Anonymous said...

Well people' today, for me , the slant takes on a new, well, slant. After posting on Wed. and feeling pretty satisfied with myself, while contentedly reading the obits, I came across the name of a dear friend. That certainly forced me to rethink because I'm regretting, of course, not having been in touch for a couple of years. Yeah, you don't know what you have 'til it's gone. But
I'm not gonna do this to myself, it's just the way things are. Now I understand the meaning of the name of that band, Life In Your Way. Life stuff just gets in the way of friendships and family and what we really want to do because that's the way it is and that's the way we are. I'm just gonna try to be content with what's in my life now and the hope I have that he'll be on the other side waiting for everybody else to catch up. Pray for his wife and youg sons.

batgirl said...

Praying for you, sister. You're right-- beyond all of our issues and soul-searching and art and jokes, it's really just people and Jesus that matter. Cry out to Him today. He loves you so very much.

Anonymous said...

Phil,
it's funny, I grew up rich and miserable. Miserable not because of money but because of the severe disfunction that existed under our roof. I thought if I deliniated money from my life that would do the trick but, alas.....I had to learn that money does matter and that you can use it to assuage some of the disgust that comes from those images of the poor that are in your head by spreading it around a little. I think Nic and Lydia probably learned that, in fact I have no doubt that Jesus saw to that.

Anonymous said...

Janet,
I don't think it's even possible to be content all the time. I think Paul was having a moment there, giving us the God given goal to strive for here on planet earth. I think he came pretty close most of the time, but he did ask God to remove that thorn.
P.S. what do you mean deeper than we thought?

Christa,
it's inevitable, we're fallen! Praise be to God who has not let us be torn by their teeth.

ellehasuly said...

Judy,
You have been a tool that God has used to dig a new garden in my soul. There are so many seeds that He plants. Which ones do I water? Contentment is a handful to get a handle on, amen to that! I pray for His grace and mercy to water the seeds and bring up the fruit that I so desire to cultivate in my garden.

Thanks again for sharing your gift.

Have a cup o'joy,
Lynne

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